The question arises in people to ask what motivates Me and what made Me decide to be a Professional Dominatrix. I have been in this industry in some form or fashion for twenty years.

Here is WHY I began Dallas Domination.  Personally, it is to fully express Myself and My power. Opportunity and responsibility to be part counselor, performer, and confidante. Boys who come into service do so because they accept and honor the mystical and Divine that I embody. I am not acting. I am a powerful woman, so brace for impact.  
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Here are My 6 Perfect Principles which define My expectations. The overarching theme is of humility because through humility boys grow. The Women of Dallas Domination can bring you to a humbled and happier self if you treat these Principles like a blueprint for your behavior.  You are to have studied these thoroughly before arrival. 
  1. Deference.  This is not Burger King and you cannot have it any way you like it. Boys stumble in often with too many interests to try in a first session. I prefer Dealer’s Choice, while incorporating things from their interest list. If you need a slogan, be more like Avis, who tries harder. I also like their motto of they are “number two.” Remember your place relative to mine and we will do well. Defer to My judgement and authority. When you say you want a Dominant Female, do not let those be idle words.
  2. Respect. We are human and equals in that, but upon arrival at Dallas Domination, we are not peers. This is not a casual setting and boys should watch their words and manners. Most places have a coat check, whereas at Dallas Domination there is an ego check. I am alert and aware of your verbal and non-verbal communication. Avoid use of those most odious forms of address such as “babe” or “sweetie,” or anything that not clearly expressed by the Dominant. For Me, the only acceptable titles are Ms Vivian or Ma’am. Study how a Dominatrix refers to Herself online and, if necessary, ask.
  3. Punctuality.  This should not have to be on the list, but I want boys to be better and I have had to add it. Why would you not want to be on time to meet the Professional Dominatrix you are paying to see? After all, the clock starts on time. Being late is a sign of disrespect. I will not let you control Me. I also do not let boys show up late and then think they can get punished, when that is just what they want.  This is the Big Leagues and I see My dungeon as Yankee Stadium. Treat it accordingly. Be on time (not early and not late), clean, and ready. After all, there likely will be a ball game.
  4. Quiet. Boys will not control the conversation. I will ask you questions, and you can answer.  Otherwise, I do not need your words and they interfere with My preference of quiet. Boys can freely communicate a safe word, otherwise quiet allows you to be thoughtful about any words you use. Most importantly, it allows you to exclusively focus on the task at hand and My words and instructions.
  5. Trust and Honesty. Boys are afforded total discretion under My direction. Measured trust and honesty can and should be reciprocated. In seeing a professional you can take comfort and trust that Their knowledge and experience will provide a better, safer outcome, particularly when approached as a voyage of discovery, and not a just-add-water instant experience. I know where we are going and can safely take you there while avoiding injuries and marks.
  6. Finally, Generosity. A generous boy feeds the inspiration to craft an unforgettable experience. This is, in some respects, related to the service industry and I believe a generous tip is warranted. It is also much appreciated. Generosity also allows a good boy to distinguish themselves.
Boys come for the kink, and grow in humility.  They become better husbands, lovers, bosses or employees and I do regularly receive appreciation for how My training has helped guide improved dealings in personal and professional contexts. 
Are you a lifestyle domme?
The Women of Dallas Domination enjoy the work, professionally.  Will They do it for little to no pay? Flat answer, no.  Some boys assume a sameness between women in the lifestyle and professionals. Do not do this.  Professional value themselves differently and take on this work for a different reason. Boys would do well to know that they are making an application. When a boy undervalues what We do as professionals, it shows they are not worthy candidates to receive any part of Our essential Feminine Power.
How much do you charge for X, Y, and/or Z?
Good for you for attempting to conquer your fear of the unknown. Dallas Domination rates represent a great value,  however, price conscious shoppers with just enough to spend are not likely to find such activities "affordable." DD reserves right to refuse any querent for any reason.  We are endowed with an abundance of personal and professional prerogative, stamina, and will.
Can I call you Mistress, my goddess, my queen, etc?
Think of this like you are applying for a prestigious job that you really want. Would you call the boss by some random name?   The Women of Dallas Domination are your superiors, so you will learn to call Us as We uniquely expect to be called.  I am Ms Vivian, Chairwoman of Dallas Domination. Alternatively, Ma'am.  Dedicated and longterm players who have achieved success in their training earn rewards.
Are you available to talk by phone?
Yes, for booked phone sessions, and to confirm details of upcoming booked session appointments. 
Will you DO activities X, Y, AND/OR Z?
There are a thousand fascinations and fantasies under the sun, and many can be included in the design of a session. DD engages in CFnm non-sexual domination.  Furthermore, DD enjoys many activities but some things cannot be entertained including but not limited to sexualized content of: minors, animals, gore.  When making contact, it is best to entreat with a patient and pleasant manner, willingness to demonstrate appreciation for the D/s dynamic, and be ready to present an inclusive list of your experiences and interests.
​WHAT IS X, Y, OR Z?
The resource of the internet is available to give reasonable definitions of many fetish and BDSM terms, including abbreviations.
deposit? tribute?
A deposit is required to secure the valuable resources of Femdom time, and dungeon space.  A successfully "booked" appointment for any type of session goes this way:
  1. Anticipate that Femdommes are busy people and not terribly likely to accept an instant meetup.  Instead, make contact with a few dates and time combinations to offer.  
  2. Agree with Her about a date and time.
  3. Book that appointment by paying a deposit (payable electronically) before the designated cutoff time.  If you snooze, you lose.  Deposit does apply toward quoted session fee, often called a tribute.  
gifts
While this is not a dating platform, gifts are not inappropriate or unwelcome as ways to express appreciation for what is rare and unique.  It is part of the fun for subs to pick out cards to give to the Dominatrices they wish and plan to see.  Gifts, cards, and gift certificates are sweet and thoughtfully appreciated.
WHAT IS THE PROCESS TO BOOK A SESSION?
  1. Have an idea of dates and times to request.  Know that same day requests are not often accommodated; advance appointments by ~2-7 days strongly encouraged.
  2. Reach out, preferably in writing by Contact message here on the website, email or text and mentioning that you are also sending a small token of consideration at the same time (if you use a pseudonym, make that clear).  This paves the way for being taken seriously and not as what's colloquially called a wanker.  This is how to cordially send invitation for contact from Ms Vivian.
  3. Be ready with an account already set up on Cashapp, Venmo or Paypal to submit $150 or more, payable toward your booked session. The balance remaining will be quoted to you and due at the start of the appointment and payable through any of those means or cash.
  4. Your next moves are to follow all instructions including being educated about Her 6 Perfect Principles (seen above).
  5. Congratulations! you are booked for an authentic and inimitable experience in the presence of a perceptive and hot af Dominatrix.